So sad to watch this video. I loved it when I first sow it and it filled me with hope, but she's hasn't learned anything. I was ready to give her a 2nd chance but I just haven't been able to watch her videos anymore. They aren't as genuine or fun. Haley if you see this comment, just know that I know you're a human being with feelings and I truly wish you the best. I hope, I just hope that you find yourself again. I'll be waiting :)

Who's here after Ryan doxxed that guy lol

love how watching your videos is like talking to a friend

She says all this and then literally changes absolutely nothing for the better and stays with her bad ways. Makes so much sense. 👌🏻

nooo haley i’m sorry people hated on retro reprise i love the design :( it sucks to see ppl criticizing something u work so hard on

I honestly didn't even think you changed. I genuinely took it as okay this is business Haley. I think it's okay for you to have shown a different side of yourself for literally only 2 out of how many videos. We love you girl!

i love you 🥺 always proud to be a girlypop

It's ok. It's fine if you lose yourself and you try to fit in. Weve all been there. Even me ALOT OF TIMES. Just remember to be yourself. One time I was friends with the popular girl in school and she was nice but i was intimidated by her bc she was popular and had alot of friends. So around her I was a bit different to my other friends. But now we are not friends. IDK why but its fine. So haley, your not the only one. And another time my freind started gossiping about another freind I had which was also her friend but she gossiped about her and I joined in. IDK why I did that but I said sorry so much and I gave her a genuine apology. So we all have our moments. Its Ok not to be ok. I'm just happy ur back

you're a kid that shouldn't be your job, isn't your job and that manipulative of your mom to put that pressure on you.

You keep doing your best. The fact that you can help your mom at such a young age is awesome. And have the things you do, be proud of yourself. Keep your head up your feet grounded. You're doing fine.

I really feel bad for her ..Imagine working on something for too long to get trash talked about.. and if you didn't like the merch or her clothing line then just dun buy it, if they were real fans they would support her no matter what .. If it ships to my country I would've bought it to support her.. this is her style and she like it, and I like it too, I can feel her bubbly and humble side through it

You're too brave to talk about that, haters need to stop

I hear you and I’m with you Haley!!🧡🙃

such a mature reaction! I love you haley and I am so proud of you

Does anyone know the song at the end?

this is such a sincere apology and everyone gets lost- everyone is glad you can take the criticism and you’re continuing to grow

sis you dropped this 👑

It's ok♥️

Haley, you are young and you will change so much in the coming years. Don't be so hard on yourself and allow yourself to truly feel what you really want. I am happy that you take care of or your mom, she will always be there for you. Much love from another Texan! I love Spock, he is soooo adorable!!!!

I think you have a hard time letting your guard down, it’s a good thing to shield yourself from being too vulnerable and too susceptible to getting taken advantage of or being misunderstood, but I can tell you’re just trying to be as genuine as possible and get back to your roots. I admire you for your hard work and dedication, Haley, I hope you feel comfortable enough to be more vulnerable with us sometimes, I love you.

Its natural for people’s attitudes to change with the situation they are in girly ♥️♥️

shut up already

Hey listen I know I’m just a random viewer and probably mean nothing yk to u or me saying what I’m going to say ur not gonna care but I’m going through the same thing u are. And everyone around me noticed before I did and I just don’t know what to do. Seeing this video makes it a little clearer on what I should do but I’m still confused. All I wanna say is I know how hard it is, like seriously. So keep doing what ur doing and cheer up. Hopefully things would be much better in the future.

as an (self announced) OG fan who has watched your videos since you had waist long hair and sang that little jingle in your intros, I am so happy to see this video. This was so genuine and sincere, nothing like other youtuber's: oh i've grown, I'm am who I am and if you can't accept that, that's your problem sort of sht.

I'm proud of you ❤💯👏🏽

i feel like you are reverting back to that

i fucking love you hay! ❤️❤️

i also noticed how she somewhat changed, and i feel like she's not the haley pham i used to watch before and that's when i stopped watching her videos,but seeing her now acknowledging where she went wrong, thats maturity. proud of you haley!:)

3:18 Spock: fast as f boizz Spock: still fast as f boizz I had to lol. Trying to lighten the mood Love you Haley!

How did you become so successful and buy your own house at 18. Give us a story time pleaseeeeee girl

What video is she talking about when she says the one previous to this one. Where she said that she wasn’t vulnerable enough? At 1:30??

I love how Spock comes up to her whenever she starts crying he is too pure for this world

I followed Haley for a little while and then her videos became less of what I was use to w her and I unsubscribed. I check up in her every couple months& I’m so glad to have seen this video, safe to say I subscribed again:)

“High school musical 2 bet on it song starts playing”

I’m happy she opened up and made this video. Haley, you’re a lovely girl and you’re becoming an amazing woman! We all change and go through hard times but you come out to be such a stronger person because of it. I pray that you and your Mom will be okay and that you won’t have to worry too much about money. You’ll be able to find yourself. Just do what you love. You’re young!! I wish you all the best, haha, and your dog is so precious ❤️

unsubsribed

Spock is a hero

I just love you so much YOU ARE AMAZING

I LOVE YOU HALEYYYYY

Always here to support her cuz her youtube channel is awesome❤

I stopped watching her videos for a while, but I kept up with her Instagram, and yeah I saw some changes, and that happens a lot with many youtubers. But the fact that she can see that she changed, and can tell when people are worried and and calling her out, out of worry for her wellbeing is Tremendous! I am so proud of you, and I’m glad that you know we just want to help, and aren’t hating. I mean... some are hating but that’s besides the point. We love you!!!!

i unsubbed to u like 5-6 months ago because u were so different from the haley i used to watch back in 2018 and seeing this video and u owning up to ur personality changing for the worst made me so happy and proud of u because ur still so young yet u act and handle things or hate so maturely i wish u the best

At least you’re honest ❤️❤️

Hold on to Jesus

halley you are an amazing person 🥺

yeah she addressed it. but i love how anytime a youtuber does something dumb (like she did) they always have some pity excuse and EVERYONE is automatically okay with them again..🤨

People are sooooo judgmental. Like youtubers have lives and problems just like us! Clearly we see why she changed & you know what when I subscribed it was me deciding that she’s normal and I like her so I’m supporting her. Period. It’s just like when your friends mess up or make mistakes you don’t just “not know” them anymore🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

Haley: starts crying* dog: ILLEGAL

wow I really rate this video. I also noticed the change and didnt think much of it, just stopped watching her videos, and I clicked on this expecting it to just be like every other fake disingenuous youtube apology where they cry at a camera to garner sympathy. but this was really mature, really thoughtful and you can see that she's really genuinely reflected on herself in a way that is hard for anyone, especially someone so young. I'm the same age as haley and I know for a fact I wouldn't have handled the criticism even half as well as she did we all get lost and confused trying to find our identity, its a part of being human and something we can all relate to. we're all really proud of you for seeing that confusion and addressing it so openly with us. I look forward to watching more of your videos in the future :))))

Haley I have only ever watched one of your videos and it was an awesome Bible study video. I pray that whatever you are going through, that you would turn back to Jesus. Lean in to Him girl! He wants you to glorify Him with everything you say and do!! ❤️ Money won't matter in eternity. Either will LTlost. Only what you do for Christ matters! You seem very sweet and I know God is softening your heart right now!! Listen to Him!! Blessings, Nicki ❤️❤️❤️

i need a support dog like that

crying in the thumbnail is the best way to automatically discredit what you're trying oh so hard to say

“Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future.” - proverbs 19:20 Good job.

This what money do to you. I used to watch you, no mooo now

The dislikes tho 👌

I appreciate you addressing this, big of you Haley

the thumbnail of the vid kinda contradicted the whole thing

I love ur faith in god, ur amazing

Be ur self cuz we miss u being u sm love for u

Love how genuine this is

just one last thing. the new thumbnails are kinda.. superficial :(

My mother always said just look at what’s moving forward not the past. But right now I don’t think it’s that easy to just forget what happened.

I'm so glad you talked about this! I wish you the best! Growing up has its ups and downs but you'll get through it and learn and turn into a more awesome person as time goes 😄 not that you're no awesome but more awesome haha

im glad haley is able to realize and grow from all this :))))))

I really appreciate how honest, humble and genuine she was.

Hailey starts crying: Spoc: 😄😘😝🙂

i love u Haley. you'll get through this. remember not matter what, ill be there for you... when the rain starts to fall haha

Haley this made me cry. You are seriously one of my biggest inspirations and I will love and support you until the end of time. Thank you so much for being honest with us and I’m beyond excited to see what you’ll do next💗💗💗

Thanks for being honest Haley! I get how the fame and wealth went to your head. At least your not like other youtubers and don’t try to play victim. There’s still time to turn your personality around! Just remember, you don’t have to act like someone else for people to like you.

I love you, new subscriber from this video

felt the genuine apology through the screen

Its true, i used to love your videos, i watched every single one but i saw you changing and it made me feel like it wasn’t you anymore and i still support you and i hope this “phamily” does too

its not even ten minutes, she straight up addressed the problem and moved on without any bullshit in between. im so happy for her (:

She'll return to her shitty behavior in no time

I can’t stress to you how proud of you I am. You didnt think you had haters, maybe it’s the way we said it, maybe it’s the amount of comments, idk. And even if you don’t change, at least immediately, I appreciate that you admitted it. I love you Haley, I’m glad you didn’t try and ignore the comments. ❤️ Resubbed ❤️

Yay! I’m so happy you aren’t just stuck up and don’t give a shit about anything but money. You can do this girl! I believe in you. You’re beautiful and have a wonderful personality. It doesn’t matter if no one likes you, because if you’re being yourself that’s the best thing. Plus if you were always yourself I guarantee you’d still have 1 sub minimum :) I hope you figure everything out. Best of luck to you love 💕

I like that you made this video it makes me want to support you

So so so proud of seeing the growth in mentality

you can tell she is truly sorry and im happy she apologized

in all honesty... i did make the decision to unsubscribe after i saw you consistently not being yourself because i genuinely thought you permanently changed. I didn't like your "new" video style AT ALL and missed how you were before. Once you stopped saying "hey girly pops" in your intro and stopped using the intro music I decided that it was the end of an era and unsubbed. BUT after watching this video I'm relieved that it was just a phase and that you actually acknowledge that something wasn't right and addressed the issue. I'm very proud of you and am gladly subscribed again :)

The change is to stop flexing on us

bah why do i feel like this still hasnt explained anything that we had an issue with

And in the next video she shows exactly the same bratty personality

yay hakey is coming back!!!

I love you Hailey and I’m genuinely excited for your clothing line. I really love the style of the crewneck and am excited to get it💗

This video made my day I love you Haley

I’m glad you addressed this. I stopped watching you for a while cause there was something that changed about you. I felt like you weren’t genuine anymore. But I’m glad you’ve realized and are trying to find yourself now.

But... this hair still ain’t it lol

we love u Haley u can be whatever u want just be u.🤍🖤🤍

I LOVE YOU AND UR VIDEOS SO MUCH

you’re crazy mature, responsible and talented. we love you, haley! we’re so proud of you💗

Spock is litterly a saviour💕

Y’all keep saying that this is a genuine apology but the midrolls saying something else

Hey Haley, I’ve happened to watch a good amount of yours and Ryan’s videos. As a small youtuber I just wanted to let you know that all the criticism that people give you can make you start to think that you’re all of a sudden not a good person anymore, or like a criminal or something, but they’re only seeing a small shade of you. They’re seeing less than 1% of you. And honestly, if anything by now they should know who you mainly are and that you are a good person. So when these people give you criticism just remember that it’s not 100% of people that instantly hate you and the world isn’t against you, it’s just that some people are triggered and/or shocked that you’ve changed in some way. Criticism is great and I’m not saying to brush it off but I am trying to remind you to not take it to heart because none of these people actually know you. No one’s gonna take you to jail, or exile you. I guess I feel the need to say all of this because I myself was trying to be funny while giving girl advice in one of my videos. It’s the only one of my videos that relatively blew up and girls messaged me saying I was misogynistic, while the other 99% of people just laughed and said thanks for the advice. It made me feel like I’m a bad person, so I cant imagine what all of this is making you feel like. Aside from my rant, I just wanted to come on here to say: you will always be a good person, you’re doing an amazing job, and it’s ok to use the criticism but never assume that what 1% of people are saying is how the 99% truly feel. I’m sure Ryan has your back through all of this, he’s probably the only person that’s capable of keeping your train on the tracks at the moment. Maybe he can remind you of who you truly are, and once he does, let the rest go. Everything’s gonna be ok :) Wonderful video Haley, you seemed to have broken down the walls between you and your viewers

We here for you❤️

is no one gonna talk ab how spot came and attacked her face when she was crying bc that was WHOLESOME

Really happy that you realized how much you changed and it’s amazing to see someone so young realize it, AND talking about it

Dogs are such supportive little creatures

Notice how every time she cried Spock gave her kisses

❤❤❤