what they don't tell you about wedding planning

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Haley Pham

Prieš 2 mėnesius

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Haley Pham
Haley Pham Prieš 2 mėnesius
Hi girlypops! I hope you enjoyed the lil intro and editing style of this video! In all reality I am truly having such a good time in my life and not stressing, but this is a video I would’ve loved to watch before getting married to understand the little things that go into a wedding! Thank you for all the kind comments, I love going through and hearting them 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Alyssa Cantu-Noble
Alyssa Cantu-Noble Prieš 6 dienų
You’re supposed to have two bouquets one bigger one to walk down the Isle and a smaller one to throw to the single girls. Also supposed to have two garters a nice one to keep and one that Ryan flings to the single guys
Jenn Jones
Jenn Jones Prieš mėn
I did freeze the top part of my wedding cake and had it a year later. It might sound gross but it was cool to do and it was just as delicious as it was on my wedding day ❣️
Amie Kaufman
Amie Kaufman Prieš mėn
Loved the new editing style 🥰🙏
Serenity Campbell
Serenity Campbell Prieš 2 mėnesius
Jery xx Yes I understand what you are saying. She definitely could be more careful about those things. It is just really hard to watch every single thing you say making sure you aren’t offending anyone, or saying things that you haven’t done all of the research on.
Jery xx
Jery xx Prieš 2 mėnesius
Serenity Campbell Hi! Yes, what you said makes sense. And of course her disclaimer about not being a doctor is appreciated. But there’s a difference in giving your opinions on things and then spreading completely false information about sex Ed. None of the things I saw in the video I watched were “opinions” or just her talking about her experiences. She was straight up speaking on things she thought to be truths and when her friend would say “omg is that true I didn’t know that” she would respond with “yes” and now her friend along with everyone else listening thinks that is true. If that makes sense. It’s just not okay since there are girls younger than her listening who might not do their own research who will now believe the things she is saying even though she is completely FALSE and hasn’t done her own research in advance before spreading all this information with thousandssss of people. Ya know?
Jessica Hayes
Jessica Hayes Prieš dieną
I got married at 19 and it was SO worth it! You guys will be so happy!
Jessica Hayes
Jessica Hayes Prieš dieną
Also, the frozen wedding cake on your anniversary really isn't gross. My husband and I were skeptical but our cake was still really good after a year, and it was just a cheap grocery store cake!
Grace Lim
Grace Lim Prieš 6 dienų
for your nails you can get press-ons!! static nails is a cool company that does long-lasting ones that file super well (if you want) and have multiple styles. plus then you can try diff ones and pick the perfect one you want for your wedding day!
Paula Martínez
Paula Martínez Prieš 8 dienų
Wedding planning at any age is stressing lol, don’t get married guys 😂
Alexandra Sanchez
Alexandra Sanchez Prieš 17 dienų
Maybe cause no one should be getting engaged at 19…¿?
Can Celled
Can Celled Prieš 18 dienų
Where do they live?
Arielle Rodriguez
Arielle Rodriguez Prieš 23 dienas
dont get married at 19 youll regret it cause men dont always stay with a girl especially at his age but the best of luck hope yall stay together forever
Hailey Galloso
Hailey Galloso Prieš mėn
i really dont wanna be a hater because i love haley but, like really, she's being kind of dramatic because- ITS GONNA BE STRESSFUL
Shelby Bruce
Shelby Bruce Prieš mėn
Look for all inclusive venues. I'm eloping with a some family in the smoky mountains of tennessee
Kasandra Campbell
Kasandra Campbell Prieš mėn
The best advise I can give about wedding planning is that there is literally nothing you “have to do”. Thinking of all the expectations, traditions, pomp, and showmanship will drive you up a wall. If you don’t like the idea of something flat out don’t do it and move on.
Raya Steinbrecher
Raya Steinbrecher Prieš mėn
you should get like a french manicure for the wedding!
Mackenzie Koehler
Mackenzie Koehler Prieš mėn
i love this video!!
Ayyee Its meg
Ayyee Its meg Prieš mėn
Idk if you know this already but don’t worry about setting up and decorating at the venue on your wedding day! Leave that for others to do that for you. Your big day should be spent relaxing, getting ready, and having fun not stressing about setting up chairs and tables and everything else! Also: one cute idea would be having a drink menu and having a drink named after Spock with his picture next to the picture of the drink
Emma Q
Emma Q Prieš mėn
I got married at 21 and there were so many challenges and stress but our wedding was beautiful and 3 years later we are happier than ever. You’ll be so happy once the actual wedding is over and you guys can just enjoy being married. Wedding planning can suck at times but it’s usually worth it in the end to have a beautiful day you will remember forever.
Parth Menon
Parth Menon Prieš mėn
Relatable . I hope you and Ryan make it through the community who don’t support the marriage . You guys are made for each other. Though if you feel your not ready I would support the decision.
Furieni Prieš mėn
OMG, the seatbelts, my OCD is crying.
strawberry milkshake
strawberry milkshake Prieš mėn
2:12 wait what 'there's a tiny little man in my stomach'
GamersGirlyful Prieš mėn
Okay i love you girl and i might be stepping out of line here but i can't just sit by and watch you do this to yourselves... STRAIGHTEN OUT YOUR CAR BELTS FOR THE LOVE OF GOD it messed me up to see them all twisted like that😭😭
lixzzyy Prieš mėn
my luck id get a big zit on my face DAY OF
Chloe L. Davis
Chloe L. Davis Prieš mėn
Just realized I am the same age as you are.. and single in college. I don't know how to feel about it. But I absolutely love watching your videos!!
Makyden Parreira
Makyden Parreira Prieš mėn
Yeah, I bet a wedding is stressful to plan!!
SwimSweetie100 Prieš mėn
The editing is super annoying in the video. Tooo much
Daniel Blount
Daniel Blount Prieš mėn
Ooh! Idea. Make sure that your videographer and photographer GET ALONG!! I’ve had some based experiences where they just don’t work together in harmony
Landen Pham
Landen Pham Prieš mėn
Hayley I’m your cousin ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhbhhhhhhhh
Eloise Testa
Eloise Testa Prieš mėn
he’s 21 your 19 btw.. also don’t call me a “girly pop”
Natalie McCarty
Natalie McCarty Prieš mėn
you and ryan are so cute
Kymia Darab
Kymia Darab Prieš 2 mėnesius
Also the way he looks at her just 🥰🥰
Kymia Darab
Kymia Darab Prieš 2 mėnesius
the intro is so nice
Rink Prieš 2 mėnesius
Yo wtf Im a kid and Im a girlypop?? Well no...Im not subbed and this is my first time watching you and I came here because of Ryan but ye maybe I'll sub later.
Arlette Ruiz
Arlette Ruiz Prieš 2 mėnesius
Awww the way Ryan looks at Haley so cute
kr calbero
kr calbero Prieš 2 mėnesius
one MAJOR thing to remember. don’t worry about traditions and the little things. i stressed myself before my wedding w the little things and the endless lists of little things i kept forgetting. GUESS WHAT i don’t even remember my wedding day bc i was so stressed. everyone adding their 2 cents in added more stress and trying to follow them plus traditions made my engagement/planning hard. just do what you want and skip the “i need to have everything correct” i promise it’s not worth it
Allen Han
Allen Han Prieš 2 mėnesius
I give it 5 years. Noooo one ever stays together when they marry young these days. Every young marriage I've seen divorces before 30. You're a dumbass if you are marrying that young. The moment you get a taste of nightlife or freedom after 21, it will wreck your marriage. It only takes one of them to fuck up.
Eshani Mathur
Eshani Mathur Prieš 2 mėnesius
Is that a girl love locket? 😍
Geetanshi Kaushik
Geetanshi Kaushik Prieš 2 mėnesius
how are you doing this during covid?
TrinityBlake27 Prieš 9 dienų
Bruh don’t be a hater
haylee lamb
haylee lamb Prieš 2 mėnesius
I love being able to watch you grow on this channel
Natalie Brown
Natalie Brown Prieš 2 mėnesius
Girl you are rushing this wedding. There's no reason to not to wait a few years and take time making decisions.
kayla91794 Prieš 2 mėnesius
Have you checked out the knot? They have like a wedding planning timeline of things to do/get so maybe that would help!
Amber Noel
Amber Noel Prieš 2 mėnesius
hey girl wondering when restock happens bc yes please
Anastasia Cristescu
Anastasia Cristescu Prieš 2 mėnesius
Only Jesus can truly satisfy, everything else are just wells that run dry; in Him we have purpose, in Him we find love and comfort and such a great Father, Friend, Savior. He died to save us all, believe in Him today, He is the Way the Truth and the Life and no one comes to the Father but by Him. For all have fallen Short of the glory of God, there is none that does good, No not one.With the heart one believes unto righteousness and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth on Him shall not perish but have everlasting life 🙏🏻🧡:)
alexandra beard
alexandra beard Prieš 2 mėnesius
i actually loved the intro
Abby Moe
Abby Moe Prieš 2 mėnesius
Ur gonna have a wedding in the middle of r o n a ??
gigi mu
gigi mu Prieš 18 dienų
And honeymoon! They got married on 8/11 and are on the trip right now.
Rawa Biah
Rawa Biah Prieš 2 mėnesius
You should watch spv laboratories’s new video called Ryan trahan and Haley Pham need to press pause it’s very interesting and accurate
Addie Soignier
Addie Soignier Prieš mėn
People just need to stop judging them. If you’ve watched some of Ryan’s recent videos you’ll know that he struggled with depression. This is a stressful time for everyone but it doesn’t give anyone a reason to take it out on other. Of course they’ve made some mistakes in the past but so has everyone
liizabee Prieš 2 mėnesius
I second this
Ragnheiður Hlynsdóttit
Ragnheiður Hlynsdóttit Prieš 2 mėnesius
Haley, there are so many mid rolls. could you please not do so so so many.
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
Gbekeee it’s worth it i swear😭😭
Gbekeee Prieš 2 mėnesius
emelbird omg it’s 2hrs😫
emelbird Prieš 2 mėnesius
Gbekeee watch the video haha
Gbekeee Prieš 2 mėnesius
Why what happened
Kimberly Zeggert
Kimberly Zeggert Prieš 2 mėnesius
Idea for hair half up half down wavy soooo adorable
its Rahquel
its Rahquel Prieš 2 mėnesius
have y’all tried getting spock training of some sort? so he doesnt hate people anymore 😭
Missy Elaine
Missy Elaine Prieš 2 mėnesius
me watching this while struggling to plan and pay for my own wedding
Marisa Zamora
Marisa Zamora Prieš 2 mėnesius
Maybe a useful tip: If you have specific people, groups of people, or separate family members, write out a list for your planner and/or your photographer with the names of each people you want in each of the photos with y'all. This will make photos after the ceremony go by faster, smoother, as well as making sure you got photos with everyone you wanted!!
Seanna Rose
Seanna Rose Prieš 2 mėnesius
The way they look at each other is everything😍
Cooper Erickson
Cooper Erickson Prieš 2 mėnesius
idk if youre even having a flower girl but if you do you should have her throw dog treats so spock wants to walk down the isle
Tiana Trulock
Tiana Trulock Prieš 2 mėnesius
"There's a tiny little man in my stomach arguguygeryryer I got da cramps" 😂😂😂 wish I couldn't relate
Avery Rocha
Avery Rocha Prieš 2 mėnesius
I LOVE WEDDINGS AND PLANNING!!! I've been in 4 weddings and been to at least 20 🤩
Miranda Miller
Miranda Miller Prieš 2 mėnesius
the twisted seatbelts...UGHH
Kristina Calonge
Kristina Calonge Prieš 2 mėnesius
Hey Haley, I got married earlier this year! Getting married can be as simple or as complicated as you want it to be! I got married after being engaged for only four months and was kinda stressed bit thankfully was constantly reminded that marriage is much bigger than the food you eat or dress you wear! It's a picture of Christ and his bride and how he was willing to sacrifice himself for the church. It's a larger picture of the Gospel. Praise God that we get to enjoy the gift of marriage. Ephesians 5 is a solid reminder of this truth. 🙂hope this is encouraging!!
Erin Hague
Erin Hague Prieš 2 mėnesius
I am an XL in hoodies & was really wanting a hoodie but by the time I got paid there was no XL left Bc there wasn’t a lot made. And tie dye is my favorite. Will you be restocking?🥺❤️
Sarah McDowell
Sarah McDowell Prieš 2 mėnesius
take each day at a time Haley! A lot of times when I'm stressed I just have to rest a moment, recenter on God and His promises, and then do the next right step. It's so important to write everything down and keep track, there's a lot to do but don't be afraid to ask for help. Especially if it's for Spock or needing assistance from others- it's easy to forget that it's not all on your shoulders and you can only do so much at one time, so keep reaching out when it becomes overwhelming. You can do it! Remember to be present and lay it all down in Gods hands.
A G Prieš 2 mėnesius
Someone please tell me where to find those wedding shoes 😭
Tales toTell
Tales toTell Prieš 2 mėnesius
"Trying to remind myself that I am still a kid" ummm girl, you're a whole ass adult. Own it. You can be a child or a bride. Not both.
Madeline R. Young
Madeline R. Young Prieš 2 mėnesius
I love how humble and genuine you are 🥺❤️
Kiara Nguyen
Kiara Nguyen Prieš 2 mėnesius
the way Ryan was staring at you while you were talking about the coffee 🥺
Mary Oary
Mary Oary Prieš 2 mėnesius
You look so beautiful!
Melissa Quinn
Melissa Quinn Prieš 2 mėnesius
Advice for spock: see if y'all could get a pet sitter for your wedding. I was asked to babysit some kids whose aunt was getting married. I attended the wedding and the party afterwords for like, an hour then I took the kids home and put them to sleep
Raenna Montoya
Raenna Montoya Prieš 2 mėnesius
I feel this my wedding is August 21, 2021 and I have nothing picked but the food and venue and I have no friends for bridesmaids 😂😂
Karla Carrazco
Karla Carrazco Prieš 2 mėnesius
Can you do a video of where you go more in depth with all the wedding stuff, that no one tells us?
Audrey Moore
Audrey Moore Prieš 2 mėnesius
dude black rock is the bees knees
olivia Prieš 2 mėnesius
Bella Ram
Bella Ram Prieš 2 mėnesius
save your wedding flowers and put them in a shadow box!
Kate Vento
Kate Vento Prieš 2 mėnesius
Omg am I the only person who thought that the wedding planners did everything 😑
Kassandra Palmer
Kassandra Palmer Prieš 2 mėnesius
I did my own makeup on my wedding day because I wanted to look like myself! No regrets!
ErinGrace Prieš 2 mėnesius
“Idc about the details, I just wanna marry my best friend.” 🥺🥺❤️❤️
Taylor Besler
Taylor Besler Prieš 2 mėnesius
I absolutely LOVE this video.
Jeralyn Montejo
Jeralyn Montejo Prieš 2 mėnesius
april kepner can plan for u
Tyler Young
Tyler Young Prieš 2 mėnesius
Girl SAMMMEEEE IM 19 and getting married next fall and I’m already freaking out with stress!! But it’s a stress I’m grateful for !
Reign Prieš 2 mėnesius
Hey advice: YOU NEED A CLEANUP CREW FOR AFTER THE RECEPTION!! I go to around 10+ weddings every year and every time they completely forget it. The families normally have to stay for hours and clean. This especially happened at 2 of my siblings weddings (reception ended at 9, i had to stay til 4 cleaning.) I promise you its a massive need. MORE ADVICE: If your table cloths are in need of ironing, start weeks beforehand if your families are doing it. Otherwise hire someone :) much love praying for you, ryan, and your families!! also i PRAY you see this bc its so necessary
Nikki Albosta
Nikki Albosta Prieš 2 mėnesius
If you wrap the cake REEEALLY well in foil, it'll keep super well in the freezer!! Ours was still really good after a year! :)
Nesub Prieš 2 mėnesius
this video screamed WHOLESOME to me!! (and kinda relatable in the future cause i felt the 'find someone to marry me' LOL)
Lo ‘
Lo ‘ Prieš 2 mėnesius
We get it
Sxnia Prieš 2 mėnesius
Who are your wedding shoes made by?
Rhiannon Elizabeth
Rhiannon Elizabeth Prieš 2 mėnesius
I got married at 18 to the love of my life for immigration related reasons so I feel ya on that "I got married before I could drink" 😂😊 we met in high school and have been together for years
Codie Wagers
Codie Wagers Prieš 2 mėnesius
who got kinda triggered when the seat belt straps were all janky???
Jennifer Pottinger
Jennifer Pottinger Prieš 2 mėnesius
Hey girlie! I orded your new girly pp tie die merch in midium, its be a while and I still havent gotten it :c Please reply idk what to do
Jennifer Pottinger
Jennifer Pottinger Prieš 2 mėnesius
pop* dye*
Alexi Madison
Alexi Madison Prieš 2 mėnesius
Hayley why you gotta be so amazing like I am just trying to buy like all your merchandise and they are like all sold out. Lysm I hope the stress goes away💖💖
Bella Rose
Bella Rose Prieš 2 mėnesius
Jamie Wolfer's master plan has helped me a ton!!!
Emily Martin
Emily Martin Prieš 2 mėnesius
Haley your twisted seatbelts are making me so uncomfortable 😂😂💕 I love you both, I’m 23 And my partner is 21 so this is so relatable. Him and I are faced with a world who is telling us we are too young so I am right there with you sis. Life is stressful, but God really has it all written down and has it all handled already. Keep your chin up, I love you.
Lisa Lele
Lisa Lele Prieš 2 mėnesius
This was such a fun vid!
Hamilton.Is.Life Prieš 2 mėnesius
Elope 👁👄👁 jk
Ashley Pearse
Ashley Pearse Prieš 2 mėnesius
I wonder if you would like a waterfall braid with the waves/curls.
Yinte Meijer
Yinte Meijer Prieš 2 mėnesius
I loved this! It is so cute🥺 and it feels so real. I feel like their friend, hanging out with them
persona Prieš 2 mėnesius
Bruh 19....... that just seems a lil.... too young. You barely know who you are at 19
jelly bunny
jelly bunny Prieš 2 mėnesius
aha yes, of course it's extremely likely that every single person on earth has the exact same mentality and level of self-growth at a certain age, i totally agree with you.
Emma Schultz
Emma Schultz Prieš 2 mėnesius
persona chevk out the vid called ‘haley pham and ryan trahan need to press pause’
Ciara Everhart
Ciara Everhart Prieš 2 mėnesius
You’re always so fun to watch! Love how cheerful you are:) and congrats again! How far out is the wedding? What kind of covid impacts are you dealing with? I’m engaged as well, we had everything planned back in March but had to postpone!!! Hope we get to have it safely in April 2021!
Brittany Webster
Brittany Webster Prieš 2 mėnesius
I'm 21 and getting married and it is so stressful. We aren't even doing a big wedding or planning a reception. Its mostly the family drama and everyone putting in their two cents that is so stressful.
iiSamanthaii Prieš 2 mėnesius
The wavy hair and the bun on you looked so CUTE
theycallmedudaa Prieš 2 mėnesius
Your entire discussion about your hair is ME. ME ME ME. The hair flipping, the non-middle part, the hating the hair in my face - 100000% hate that! I feel you, it is extremely hard to find a style that works with the quirks and our hair touching hahah
Nicole Baker
Nicole Baker Prieš 2 mėnesius
Are you gonna post a video of the wedding?
Ivy Ohrenberg
Ivy Ohrenberg Prieš 2 mėnesius
I LOVEDDDD that up- do hair style so muchhh
Yasmin Jemmett
Yasmin Jemmett Prieš 2 mėnesius
you're so precious ;)
Madison Loehmann
Madison Loehmann Prieš 2 mėnesius
I’m a wedding photographer and do more that 50 weddings a year! I’m also getting married at age 21 so i feel ya in the young couple department. I definitely think doing your own makeup is a great idea. It leave time in the day for just you to focus on yourself and you can take a few breathers during that time! Also if you have your hair down, do a dainty half up half down look so that the main pieces of here that could get into your face won’t. To downplay the fact that you’re planning for a wedding, tell yourself you’re planning a fun party instead. Because a party is something you’re not going to put a lot of pressure on yourself for! Most people don’t remember the decor so don’t spend too much time pondering on it. On the day of your wedding, do what YOU need. If you need a few seconds to breath or you need water, always tell someone. Everyone is there for you and Ryan because they love you. Also for less of a clashing schedule, make sure your photographer, planner, and DJs schedule of the day are all the same because the photographer might not know about things only your DJ or planner knows and that leaves room for some bad photos or added stress. Let me know if you have any questions!
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